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accordingtoliss:

Be a selfish bitch.

Don’t feel bad for going after what you want. 

Do that shit on your own fucking terms.

Hold a middle finger up to anyone who puts you down.

Wear what you want.

Do what you want. 

Worry about yourself being good before anyone else.

Life life to the fucking fullest. 

You run you.

You paint your own damn masterpiece.

Never fucking forget that.

Go on, girl. You better do it.

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Anonymous asked:

That webclip makes me SO ANGRY because Caroline is trying to cheer up her friend after she was dumped by a guy who has harmed Caroline in the past but she puts Elena's feelings before her own! And then Tyler up and leaves her and she gets little to no sympathy and recognition from anyone. GAAAAAHHHHHH. I don't care if Elena changes and starts embracing being a vampire. Swell. But it's fundamentally altering her character, not character growth, to have her be so self-centered.

isaaclaheyest:

enzoline:

Exactly. When Tyler left Caroline Caroline cried in the dark. And up until that point Elena was saying over and over and over again that “Tyler wasn’t there”, as if Tyler was a bad boyfriend (while she dated Damon and had the gall to get mad whenever Caroline complained about it). And now Elena’s been dumped and Bonnie and Caroline are by her bedside giving her orange juice. -__- Was anyone there giving Bonnie orange juice when her boyfriend died? No. Elena was setting her house on fire.

Elena doesn’t deserves these friends. They’re so good to her for nothing in return. She’s so incredibly selfish.

Oh honey. They are giving her MIMOSAS.

FUCK ELENA.

Ugh, what they’ve made her

nivair:

seekingwillow:

dayzies-s:

tan-fit-healthy:

letsdeadlyfart:

bluedreamsx:

slaveoftheflesh:

xsorrowxlightx:

trumpetnista:

rarely-pure-never-simple:

thecornercoffeeshoppe:

hickshannary:

small-and-misunderstood:

Saw this somewhere else and felt the need to post it cause no one else ever really tells you this stuff

My mom never really noticed. She noticed when she was breast feeding my little brother and blood started coming out instead of milk. 

My mom said she felt and saw a little lump in the shower. She was lucky enough she found it at stage 2

My mom had a mammogram. The radiologist thought the spots were just regular calcium deposits. 

Turns out it was triple negative breast cancer that had spread to her lymph nods. Mastectomy, radiation and chemo saved her life.

This could SAVE a life.

dont be embarrassed to reblog, this post could be life saving

Signal BOOST and pass it on. I had a breast cancer scare before (luckily it was just scar tissue…) and information like this kept me calm and collected at the doc’s.

As a cancer patient myself, who found my own cancer through a supposed LARPing injury last year, i know how scary it is and how important it is to catch it early. Please spread this around!

listen to ur boobs

its all in the boobs

hoW MANY TIMES AM I GOING TO REBLOG THIS ! SORRY FOLLOWERS , #sorrynotsorry

Always reblog! 

REBLOG,THIS COULD SAVE SOMEBODY!!! DONT BE EMBARRASSED!!!

B

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This doesn’t mention: BRUISING WHERE YOU CAN’T REMEMBER WHAT CAUSED THE INJURY AND THAT DOESN’T SEEM TO HEAL.

- Possible Breast Cancer Signs.

THANK YOU. Nobody ever tells you what to fucking look for in breast self-exams. I gleaned that one is supposed to generally know the landscape so they can report abnormalities (YEAH PRONOUN-SWITCHING, WHAT OF IT). And I just laugh ‘cause like THAT’LL WORK GREAT. I am afraid every weirdly persistent acne scar is skin cancer but who has money (or time off from work) for doctors’ appointments and tests. So I just move forward with no information except that I’m still alive, fingers crossed! And eyes for some reason. We live in a fucked-up society where knowledge is locked up for the privileged, but I think I’ve digressed enough.

buffysummerslay:

I mean, that’s life.

#people say that this pairing is a cliche without understanding that not all cliches are wrong #a lot of times it’s not about a story, but about how it’s told #people call them cheesy #immature #high school love #and they say it as if it’s a bad thing #when actually that’s where the beauty lies #stefan and elena started of like that #they were cute and adorable and full of metaphor #everyone enjoyed them for a while but that kind of a story is meant for short telling, like a movie #television demands more #people say they have no build up because they got together instantly #because they were together from the beginning #people say that tension building up to a relationship is so much better #like sitting in a restaurant, waiting for your dessert, when you finally see the waiter coming up #but when you wait such a long time for your dessert the chocolate is too mushy and ice cream melted and there’s always a chance the waiter will trip in a rush to finally get it to you #the truth is that these two had more build up than any other couple in the show #it was happening within the relationship #they grew together #they fell apart together #we had our dessert in front of us the whole time and waiters kept giving us extra scoops when we weren’t even looking #honestly I think that’s harder #more demanding storytelling #to sustain a relationship from the start #to keep it a vital piece of the show even when it stops occupying more than half of your screen time #people were so busy trying to tear them down with how cheesy they are #with how they have no build up #just because it happened in a way that wasn’t shoved down our throats #it was slow #and you had to pay attention #and people missed that #seasons went by and they missed out on everything #to see how these two character grew #together and separately #how their relationship grew with them #how this couple in a teen drama show surpassed a typical HIGH SCHOOL RELATIONSHIP while still being in HIGH SCHOOL #how much stefan salvatore grew and found new meaning of life next to elena #it wasn’t that much about your typical love story it was about the GIRL and WHO she was and HOW she treated him #how much elena gilbert grew within just few episodes #how stronger she had become #smarter #more resourceful #how much these two people grew separately influenced by each other #and it was amazing to watch #how this boy had lived through so many lifetimes, full of knowledge and experience and emotions this girl still has to learn about, and yet she was one with a hand strong enough to help him get to his feet #people missed the COMPLEXITY of a relationship that had such a simple premise #these two people were in sync #working together like they share a same brain #they were partners, moving to the same rhythm #they were making selfish decisions and paid for them #they made selfless ones and paid for them more #it was warming to see this this boy who is more than 100 years old treat a 17 year old girl as his equal #not like a child #it was more warming to see him admitting there are things he learned from her #they fell so many times #and they rose #they fell apart and pulled themselves back together #it was so amazing to watch this girl love his boy without losing herself in him because he never pressured the superiority of the time he spent on this planet on her #to watch this boy love respect admire learn from this girl, lean on her without squishing her #i feel sorry for people who had missed it #who are still missing it #because i feel like this moment right here is so important for them #how becoming friends is important for the future of their possible romantic relationship #somewhere in the far future which only makes it better #they will always have this #they will always have a starting point #common ground #something to bounce off of #they’re comfortable #honest #and i can’t stress enough what a complex relationship this is #because there was so much growing #and changing #but yet they still have that something that makes them them #and it’s amazing to watch these two people fall back into their old routine after everything they’ve been through #because the possibility of not having each other in their lives doesn’t exist #and that’s what’s amazing #they’re a constant #their relationship has been building up since episode one #and it’s still building up to this day #and it will never stop

Bravo.

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barriobruja:

I would like to say that the nature of what I’m doing to enhance my appearance is not meant for you.
The way I view myself as a beautiful deity and the confidence that exudes when I pick up my brush, and apply it to my face- is not meant for you.
My unabashed approach on denouncing standardized views of masculinity is not meant for you.
I do not feel more male with a beard than female with lipstick on. It is not your job to figure that out. It’s your job to fall the fuck back and just like my selfies.
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barriobruja:

I would like to say that the nature of what I’m doing to enhance my appearance is not meant for you.
The way I view myself as a beautiful deity and the confidence that exudes when I pick up my brush, and apply it to my face- is not meant for you.
My unabashed approach on denouncing standardized views of masculinity is not meant for you.
I do not feel more male with a beard than female with lipstick on. It is not your job to figure that out. It’s your job to fall the fuck back and just like my selfies.
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barriobruja:

  • I would like to say that the nature of what I’m doing to enhance my appearance is not meant for you.
  • The way I view myself as a beautiful deity and the confidence that exudes when I pick up my brush, and apply it to my face- is not meant for you.
  • My unabashed approach on denouncing standardized views of masculinity is not meant for you.


I do not feel more male with a beard than female with lipstick on. It is not your job to figure that out. It’s your job to fall the fuck back and just like my selfies.

disneysnowprincess:

veteranfangirl:

Conceal, don’t feel. Don’t let them know.

"[With Elsa, it] definitely was intentional to show anxiety and depression." - JENNIFER LEE (x)

THIS IS ONE OF THE REASONS THIS MOVIE IS SO IMPORTANT. 

Like yes, I agree with the major criticisms going around tumblr re: racism and heteronormativity and not enough major female characters YES, they’re all valid points.  I just don’t understand the bloodlust towards Frozen more than, say, Tangled.  These issues aren’t unique to this movie; they’re widespread societal problems and that leaks into our media.  It can still be a good/enjoyable movie.  I see you SJWers enjoying Aladdin at the same time and that shit’s racist as hell.  Just because something has problematic elements doesn’t make it bad.

BUT THIS CHARACTER IS SO FUCKING IMPORTANT.  Because little girls are obsessed with her, they’re latching on to her.  Little girls love Elsa.  And she’s a Disney Princess with major neuroses.  (I know this is Anna’s story but Elsa’s more popular.)  And it shows a main female character with major anxiety and depression issues, and it shows her as a powerful, strong, loving person around those issues, and it shows her as an incredibly positive character. 

A lot of people are saying that the story would’ve been better if Elsa’d been the antagonist, and she was originally intended to be until that changed in development.  And you know what, it’s for the best because she’s a protagonist with mental issues.  It’s easy and common to give those to a villain.  Villains are twisted and they hurt people because they’re not Good People.  Disney Princesses might not be perfect but they’re damn close to it and their faults are charming and cute and not crippling.  Elsa’s issues and her failure to deal with them are crippling.

So many teens and adults have identified with her issues, and seeing them portrayed in a positive and beloved character is so fucking important, because children see that not just scary weirdos have mental issues.  Elsa hurts people because of her issues.  She doesn’t mean to but she hurts her parents and sister and kingdom and strangers, emotionally and physically.  And she’s a Good Guy.  Not only is she a Good Guy, she’s a Disney Princess.  They’re not supposed to hurt people — except oh maybe hurt feelings because they were following their dreams or something saccharine like that.

And she makes a series of bad choices, selfish choices, because she can’t deal with her issues.  Just like real people.  She’s not a bad person because she makes bad choices stemming from her neuroses.  Little kids see someone who’s awesome! with anxiety and depression and they see that she’s more than just her issues, and she’s deserving of love

THIS^^^^^^

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